supercontra:

you can interpret characters however you want like thats all up to you theyre not real you can ship them any which way you wanna in the end theyre fictional characters and who care

but like when you start doing that with actual real life people like actors or musicians thats when youve crossed the line into fetishization and are making people gay for the novelty of them being gay and thats really dehumanizing and youre making homosexuality out to be a commodity which is gross and also problematic especially when you start saying shit about their actual partners (ie. “he doesnt really love her hes just faking it” or “hes really in love with (x) he just doesnt know it yet”) their sexuality or lack thereof is not any of your business and its definitely not up to you to make shit up about it

pretty much exactly how I feel yeah

creeping on IRL people is skeevy as fuck

if you’re the fan of the actor that’s fine, whatever, just don’t draw porn of them or whatever do you even understand how gross that is

tthey’re real people and they have boundaries. Just because they’re rich and famous and all over the media doesn’t give you permission to overstep those boundaries

this is basic fucking people skills here c’mon people